Step Towards Transformation

Spirit vs. Flesh


Sermon Preached On Sunday 3rd  July, 2016

There’s A Battle Taking Place In  All Of Us; It’s A Battle Between The Flesh And The Spirit.

The Flesh Is Our Natural, Carnal Desires; That’s What We Were Born With. Have You Ever Noticed How You Don’t Have To Teach A Child To Be Impatient, To Be Selfish, To Get Upset?

Illustration; I Was At A Mall And This Little Boy, Probably 2 Years Old, Was There Shopping With His Mother. She Looked Like A Working Woman, Very Professional, Well Dressed. Her Boy Was The Cutest Can Be. He Went And Brought Something From The Bottom Shelf. His Mother Said Lovingly , “No Son, We Have To Put That Back.” Till That Point He Was Happy, In A Good Mood. But When She Took That Away, It Was Like He Turned Down Int A Different Person. He Started Screaming, He Felled Down On The Floor, Banging His Hands And Legs On The Floor, Throwing This Big Fit. You Would Think He Is Dying. Because His Mom Was Embarrassed, She Tried To Quietly Pick Him Up, He Screamed Even Louder.

Here’ S My Point: Nobody Has To Teach A Child How To Throw A Fit; That’s What We’re Born With.  The Scripture Calls It The Flesh, Or Our Carnal Nature:  It’s Things Like Pride, Selfishness, Impatience, Getting Upset.

Here The Key:  The Flesh Wants To Be In Control. The Flesh Is Not Going To Be Happy Unless It Gets Its Way. The Easy Way Is To Give In;

That’s Ok When We’re Two Years Old, We’re Growing, Learning, People Understand Why We’re Childish. The Problem Is Not When We’re 2, But When We’re 42 And We’re Still Throwing A Fit, Being Ruled By Our Feelings.  We Think,

  • “I Feel Like Being Rude;  I’m Going To Tell Them Off.
  • I Feel Like Being Lazy; I’m Going To Skip Work.
  • I Feel Like Being Impatient,
  • I Feel Like Compromising.”

As Long As You’re Allowing Your Feelings To Be The Boss, It Will Limit How High You Can Go.

The Scripture Talks About Dying To The Flesh;  That Means Not Giving In To What We Feel.

Galatians 5:16 (NIV) 16 So I Say, Walk By The Spirit, And You Will Not Gratify The Desires Of The Flesh.

 If You Live On That Shallow Level Of Always Having To Please Your Flesh, You’ll Never Discover What’s Really In You, The Best Of You; Your Gifts, Talents And Potential Won’t Come Out.  You Have To Go Beyond The Surface.

If You’ll Get Past The Temporary Pain Of Not Having Your Way, And Choose To Follow The Spirit Instead Of The Flesh:, God Will Release More Of His Favor; You’ll Continue To Rise Higher And Higher.  But Too Many People Live On This Surface Level Of Letting Their Feelings And Emotions Run Their Life.  The Problem Is, Our Feelings Will Lead Us Down The Wrong Path.

  • Your Feelings Will Tell You, “You’re Tired, You Don’t Need To Go To Work Today, Just Sleep In.”
  • Your Flesh Will Tell You, “They Were Rude To You; Don’t Let Them Have The Last Word, Be Rude Back To Them.”
  • Your Feelings Will Tell You, “I Want Another Piece Of Cake, Don’t Make Me Wait, I’m Hungry.” If You Listen, You’ll Hear The Spirit Say, “No More Cake; 7 Pieces Was Enough.”

The Flesh Likes To Be Comfortable, But If You’re Always Comfortable, You’ll Never Grow. When You Discipline Yourself To Do The Right Thing, The Harder It Is, The More You’re Growing In That Area. Instead Of Seeing It As, “This Is So Painful,” Turn It Around;  “This May Be Uncomfortable, But I Know I’m Growing A Whole Lot, Making Progress.”

Hebrews 12:11 …. No Discipline Seems Pleasant At The Time, But Painful. Later On, However, For Those Who Have Been Trained By It, It Produces A Harvest Of Righteousness And Peace.

We Need To Think More About Later On;  Our Feelings Only Tell Us About Right Now.  But A Mature Person Doesn’t Get Caught Up In The Emotion Of The Moment; They Always  

  • Your Flesh Will Tell You, “I Want Junk Food, Colas, Desserts; Make Me Comfortable.” At The Time, It May Taste Good, But Later On You Won’t Be As Healthy As You Could Be.
  • We Get Upset, And Think, “I’m Going To Go Tell My Boss Off, I’m Going To Give Him A Piece Of My Mind.”  You Can Do That, But Later On You Won’t Have A Job.
  • At Home, We Know We Should Bite Our Tongue, Not Say Something To Our Spouse, But It Feels Good To Please The Flesh; We Say It Anyway. Later On, We’re Sleeping On The Couch, We’ve Entered Into World War Iii.

Even Though It’s Difficult, It’s Much Better To Say, “Flesh, You’re Not Going To Rule My Life.”  When You Do That, Later On, You’ll Not Only Still Have A Job, Have A Marriage, Have Good Health, But Your Character Is Coming Up Higher; God Can Entrust You With More.

Illustration: Maybe You’re At The Mall, And You See Those Nice Dresses, The Ones You Know You Can’t Afford Right Now. You Know Those Funds Are Set Aside For The Monthly House Payment, But They’re The Latest, Greatest Dresses, And Wouldn’t You Know It, They’re On Sale This Week Only. Your Flesh Will Tell You, “It’s A Sign From God, You Can’t Pass That Up.” Then, You’ll Hear A Still, Small Voice, The Spirit Whispering; “Don’t Do It; Be Disciplined, Wait For The Right Time.” The Flesh Is Always Much Louder, Stronger, “I’ve Got To Have It, They’re On Sale, Plus There’s A Special Discount.”  If You Give In, And Let The Flesh Be The Boss, Later On, When You To Have To Pay The Bills, You’ll Be Depressed.

It’s Much Better If You’ll Pay The Price For Discipline Today;  If You’ll Not Get Onboard With Those Feelings, Make Decisions Based on Wisdom, Then Later On There Will Be A Great Harvest.

When You See People That Are Blessed, Successful, Have Good Relationships, They Didn’t Get There Because They Were Lucky; They Were Disciplined, They Did The Right Thing When It Was Hard. The People That Reach Their Highest Potential Are The People That Are Good At Saying No To Their Flesh.

Illustration: Those Friends That Want You To Party All The Time, Your Feelings Will Tell You, “Just Do It, It’s Fun, You’ll Have A Great Time,” But Later On There Can Be Addictions, Trouble In Relationships.

If You Want To See The Great Harvest, God’s Favor, Blessing, Increase, You Have To Make The Decision To Choose Discipline Today.

Illustration: One Day In Summer When It Was Very Hot And I Was In Pune For A Seminar, I Was Very Hungry For Spicy Kolhapuri Food. I And My Friend Pastor Went To A Local Maharashtrian Restaurant Where They Served The Best Kolhapuri Food. As I Was Getting Down From The Auto, Very Excited To Be At A Best Kolhapuri Serving  Restaurant, I Heard Something Down In Here Saying, “Melwyn , You Better Not Eat This Food. It Is Very Hot Outside And In A Few Minutes You Would Be In The  Non- Airconditioned Hall Preaching. I Did Not Pay Attention To That. I Did Not Want To Here That. I Had My Mind Already Made Up. I Wanted To Have This Chicken Kolhapuri And Misal. But Once Again I Heard This Whisper Down Here , “Melwyn , You Better Not Eat It. This Is Not A Good Idea. I Thought “Get Behind Me Satan, This Is A Good Idea.” I Ate And Ate. Few Minutes Later , I Was In The Preaching Venue. The  Pastor Announced That There Is A Electricity Short Circuit And There Would Be No Power Till Evening. I Started Feeling Dizzy Nauseated, Sick To My Stomach.I Told My Wife “I Wont Be Able To Preach In This Very Hot Place. Can You Preach In This Session.” She Said, “No, You Have To Preach.” I Wanted To Cast The Devil Out Of Her Too. I Was So Miserable, Feeling So Hot And Also Upset In My Stomach.

The Funny Thing When I Was Eating Those Hot Kolhapuri Dishes In The Restaurant, I Did Not Think Of Later On.

My Flesh Never Once Said Later On This Can Be A Problem , Melwyn. It Taste Good But Later On It Will Make You More Hot. All My Flesh Told Me “Give Me Kolhapuri Food. Give It To Me Now. Don’t Make Me Wait”

The Spirit Was Trying To Warn Me. God Was Infact Trying To Tell Me To Keep Away From This Kolhapuri Hot Spicy Stuff Today.

Heres My Point :

  • Your Feelings Will Tell You “You Need Money, Invest In That Chit Fund “ But That Doesn’t Mean That’s What’s Best For You. “
  • Your Feelings Will Tell You, “They Hurt You; Hold A Grudge, Live Bitter.”
  • Your Feeling Will Tell You , “She Did Not Invite You To Take A Pic Together, Hold A Grudge, Live Bitter’. At The Same Time, You’ll Hear A Still Small Voice Whispering, “Let It Go, Forgive. Let God Be Your Vindicator.”

The Flesh And The Spirit Are Constantly At Odds;  You Get To Choose Who’s The Boss. Nobody Can Make This Decision For You; We Can Encourage It, Cheer You On, Tell You That You Have What It Takes, But Only You Can Make The Decision, “I Am Not Going To Live At This Surface Level. I’m Not Going To Let The Flesh Control My Life, Taking The Easy Way Out.  I’m Going To Dig My Heels In. Instead Of Letting My Feelings Rule Me, I’m Going To Start Ruling Over My Feelings.”  

You’ve Heard Little Kids Use The Phrase, “You’re Not The Boss Of Me”; Next Time Your Flesh Tells You, “Compromise, Get Upset, Give Into Temptation,” Just Answer Back, “You’re Not The Boss Of Me. I Am Not Living On That Surface Level. I’m Going Deeper;  I’m Going To Become All That God Created Me To Be.”

Paul Said In Galatians:

Galatians 6:8 (AMP)8 For He Who Sows To His Own Flesh (Lower Nature, Sensuality) Will From The Flesh Reap Decay And Ruin And Destruction, But He Who Sows To The Spirit Will From The Spirit Reap Eternal Life.

Notice, When You Do The Right Thing When It’s Hard, When You Sow To The Spirit, You’re Going To Reap Blessings, Favor, Increase, Not Only Eternal Life, But Abundant Life Here On This Earth. But When We Give Into Our Natural, Carnal Desires, Keep Doing What We Feel,

  • “I Feel Like Being Lazy, I’m Going To Be Lazy.
  • I Feel Like Compromising, I’m Going To Give Into This Temptation.
  • I Feel Like Staying Up All Night Watching Television.”

When We Sow To The Flesh, We Won’t Reap Anything Good. But When You Discipline Yourself To Take The High Road, To Say No To Your Feelings, You Are Sowing To Spirit. It May Not Happen Overnight, But If You’ll Keep Making Those Choices, You Will Come Into A Great Harvest.  Romans Talks About:

Romans 8:1 (AMP) 8 … Walk Not After The Dictates Of The Flesh

That’s Saying, The Flesh Wants To Be A Dictator, The Flesh Wants To Control Your Life.

What Does A Dictator Do?  Tells You What To Do, When To Do It, How To Do It.  They Make All The Decisions, You Just Sit Back And Follow The Orders.  In Other Words,

  • You Get Stuck In Traffic, Your Flesh Tells You, “Get Upset, Be Stressed Out.”  So Many People Follow The Dictates Of The Flesh;  Just Like A Good Soldier, When They Hear Those Orders, “Yes Sir, Right Away Sir,” They Get Upset, Go Through The Day Stressed Out.  Or
  • You Wake Up In The Morning, Your Feelings May Tell You, “You’re Depressed, Nothing Good Is In Your Future, Feel Lousy.” Some People Get Onboard; They Go Around Depressed, No Passion. “I Can’t Help What I Feel”;

I’m Not Asking You To Not Feel Anything, That’s Not Reality, God Made Us As Emotional Beings.  All Through The Day, You Will Feel Things, But Just Because You Feel It Doesn’t Mean You Should Act On It.  Paul Said:

Ephesians 4:26 …. Be Angry, And Sin Not

You May Feel The Emotion Of Anger, That’s Ok, Just Don’t Act On It, You May Feel Offended, Just Don’t Give In; “I’m Not Getting Onboard With Those Feelings.”  Or You May Feel Tempted To Compromise, So Strong, You Don’t See How You Can Control It; But God Wouldn’t Ask Us To Feel Something And Not Give In If We Couldn’t Do It.  Yes, The Feelings Are Real, But You Have To Ask Yourself, “Is What I’m Feeling Going To Move Me Toward My Destiny, Help Me Improve, Or Is It Just My Natural, Fleshly Desires That Are Going To Keep Me From Rising Higher?”  Who’s The Boss, You Or Your Feelings?  Are You Going To Let The Flesh Stay On The Throne, Be The Dictator?

  • “My Flesh Said, “Get Upset,” So I Got Upset.
  • My Flesh Said, “Don’t Clean The House,” So I Didn’t Clean The House This Week, This Month, This Year.
  • My Flesh Said, “Hook Up With This Other Person,” So I Kind Of Messed Up In My Relationship.”

Living By What We Feel Is A Very Shallow Way To Live.

I’m Asking You To Dethrone The Flesh. It’s Time To Have A Change In Authority.

You’ve Seen How, In Foreign Countries, When They Have A Dictator, It’s Very Oppressive, Pushing The People Down. They Can’t Vote Him Out Of The Office, They Don’t Have A Democracy. They Have To Take Drastic Measures; They Rise Up And Overthrow The Dictator, They Forcefully Throw Him Out Of Office.

 In The Same Way, Your Flesh Wants To Rule Your Life, To Stay In Control, Tell You How To Feel, Lead You Down The Wrong Path.  It’s Not Going To Go Down Easily;  When You Don’t Give It What It Wants, It’s Going To Throw A Fit, Get Upset. You Have To Dig Your Heels In, Be Determined, And Say, “Enough Is Enough. Flesh, You’re Not The Boss Of Me Anymore.  Feelings, You’re Not Going To Rule My Life. I Am Taking You Off The Throne. From Now On, I’m Going To Start Being Ruled By The Spirit.”

1 Corinthians 15:31 (KJV) 31 … I Die Daily.

He Was Saying, “Every Day I Have To Say No To My Flesh. Every Day I Have To Take My Feelings Off The Throne.” This Is Not Something That We Do One Time And Then We’re Done, It’s An Ongoing Process.

Paul Wrote Over Half Of The New Testament, He’s One Of The Great Heroes Of Faith, Yet He Still Had To Deal With His Flesh. You Never Get To The Point Where You’re So Mature, You’re So Spiritual, That You Don’t Have Any Of These Fleshly, Carnal Desires. Like Paul, Every Day, We Have To Learn To Say No To Certain Feelings.

Illustration: One Time I Had A Disagreement With My Wife. It Was Not A Big Deal But I Was Very Angry On Her. I Knew The Right Thing To Do, Just To Let It Go And Move Forward. But I Felt Like Being Offended. I Felt Like Feeling Sorry For Myself. Instead Of Ruling My Feelings , I Let Feelings Rule Me. I Put Them Back On The Throne. I Decided To Give My Wife A Silent Treatment. When My Wife Walked By Me In The House , I Would Ignore Her. Act Like I Did Not See Her. When My Wife Asked Me Something , I Would Answer In A Shortest Unfriendly Way. I Liked How It Made Me Feel.

When You Give Into The Flesh, There Is Pleasure; It Feels Good To Have A Pity Party, Eat The 12 Cone Of Ice Cream, Skip School And Go Down To The Beach. The Flesh Loves To Have Its Way, Loves To Stay On The Throne.

Illustration Contd….A Couple Of Hours Later, My Wife Got Tired Of Having My Slient Treatment. She Went And Hid In The Balcony And Stayed There As Quietly As She Could. I Looked And Looked And Looked Every Where Throughout The House. Its Hard To Ignore Somebody When You Cant Find Them. The Longer I Looked The More Worried I Got . I Thought The Rapture Took Place And I Got Left Behind.

Few Minutes Later I Went To See Out Of The Balcony Where My Wife Was Hiding. She Jumped On Me And Held Me Tight And Said , “Melwyn I Will Not Leave You Until You Cheer Up.” We Laughed So Much That I Forgot What I Was Mad About.

No Matter How Mature You Are, Every Day You Have To Take Those Feelings Off The Throne.

Paul Said:

1 Corinthians 6:12 (AMP) 12 Everything Is Permissible (Allowable And Lawful) For Me; But Not All Things Are Helpful (Good For Me To Do, Expedient And Profitable When Considered With Other Things). Everything Is Lawful For Me, But I Will Not Become The Slave Of Anything Or Be Brought Under Its Power.

There Are A Lot Of Things We Can Do And Get Away With.  We Can Go Through Life With A Bad Attitude, Hot Temper, Compromising, Impatient; That’s Permissible, But It’s Not Very Profitable.

If You Live At That Shallow Level, Letting Your Feelings Rule You, You Can Only Go So High. Yes, You’ll Survive, But It Will Be Much Less Than You Were Created For.  I’m Talking Today About Reaching The Fullness Of Your Destiny.

1 Corinthians 6:12 (AMP) 12 … I Will Not Become The Slave Of Anything Or Be Brought Under Its Power.

When We Let Our Feelings Rule Us, We Become A Slave To Anger, Lust, Self-Pity. Because We’re Letting Our Flesh Stay On The Throne, It’s Like We’re Serving Those Things, Held By Their Power.  But This Is A New Day; The Flesh Is Being Dethroned. No More Living As Slaves; We’re Rising Up And Saying, “Flesh, You’re Not Going To Control Us, We’re Going To Take The Throne, Make Decisions That Honor God, And Move Us Toward Our Destiny.”

1 Corinthians 3:3 (AMP)3 For You Are Still [Unspiritual, Having The Nature] Of The Flesh [Under The Control Of Ordinary Impulses].

It Doesn’t Say That These Ordinary Impulses Will Go Away. The Feelings Will Always Be There; The Problem Is That When We Give In, We Come Under Their Control.

But Melwyn  “I’ve Always Had A Problem With My Temper, I’ve Always Been Impatient, I’ll Never Change.”

Here’s How You Do It;  You Have To Quit Feeding Those Feelings.  Anything You Feed Is Going To Grow. When That Emotion Of Anger Comes, If You Keep Giving In, Getting Upset, All You’re Doing Is Making It Stronger, Giving It More Power. If You Keep Feeding That Self-Pity, Going Around Feeling Sorry For Yourself,

It’s Just Like A Person That’s Addicted To A Drug; The More He Takes It, The More He Has To Have It.  He Craves It, The Desire Becomes Stronger.

Whatever Area You’re Letting Your Feelings Rule, It’s Going To Grow.  If You Get Stressed Out Every Time You Get Stuck In Traffic, You’re Feeding The Impatience; Just Imagine You’re Serving It A Meal. You Get Real Upset, “Here’s A Steak Dinner, Here’s Some Vitamins.”

If You Want To Get Out From Under The Control Of The Ordinary Impulses, You Can’t Pray Them Away; They’re A Part Of Life.  The Way You Break Free Is You Quit Feeding Them.

Next Time You’re Tempted To Get Upset, You Feel That Ordinary Impulse, Don’t Respond.  Put On Some Good Praise Music, Think About All You Have To Be Grateful For.

What’s Happening? You’re Feeding Your Spirit Person Instead Of Feeding Your Flesh. As Your Spirit Grows Stronger, Your Flesh Is Getting Weaker. You Have To Starve Self-Pity, The Anger, The Bad Attitude.  If You Keep Sowing To The Flesh, You’ll Reap Defeat, But If You’ll Start Sowing To The Spirit, You’ll Reap Victory.

Even Though Those Fleshly, Normal Impulses Still Come, They Won’t Control You Anymore. This Is How You Know That You’re Mature; Not That You Don’t Have Any Temptations, Not That You Prayed Away Everything That Bothers You, A Sign Of Maturity Is You Still Feel The Negative Emotions, But You Don’t Act On Them, You Don’t Put Them Back Up On The Throne. You’re The Boss Of Your Life, Not Your Feelings.

Proverbs 25:28 (AMP) 28 He Who Has No Rule Over His Own Spirit Is Like A City That Is Broken Down And Without Walls

When We Keep Giving Into These Ordinary Impulses, Our Walls Are Down, We Have No Protection; We’re Defenceless, The Enemy Can Come In And Have A Heyday With Our Life.

Here’s The Solution; God Has Given Each One Of Us Self-Control. Self-Control Is Like A Muscle;  If You Never Use It, If You Never Discipline Yourself, Your Self-Control Muscle Is Going To Be Very Weak. You Have To Start Exercising It. Start Saying No To Your Flesh.  You Have A Destiny To Fulfil;  God Has Amazing Things In Your Future.

 Galatians 4:1 …. I’m Saying That As Long As The Heirs Are Is A Child , They Are No Different From Slaves, Though They Really Are The Owners Of Everything.

If You’re Throwing A Fit At 2 Years Old, That’s Ok, But If You’re 20 Years Old, 40 Years Old, 60 Years Old, Still Giving Into The Ordinary Impulses, God Is Saying, “It’s Time To Grow Up,”

If You’ll Take Your Flesh Off The Throne, God Will Start Releasing Some Of These Amazing Things That He Has In Your Future.

Spiritual Maturity Has Nothing To Do With How Long You’ve Been In Church, How Long You’ve Known The Lord; It Has Everything To Do With What Kind Of Fruit Are You Displaying In Your Life.

Are You Not Living By Your Feelings? Are You Saying No To These Emotional Impulses?

Illustration: I Read Something Interesting About Mountain Climbers. When They Are Out Climbing, One Of The Main Things  They Have To Watch Out Is For Poisonous Snakes. The Snakes Can Be Hidden Behind The Rocks. A Snake Bite In The Mountains Can Be Fatal, Can Take Days To Get Rescued .So They Are Always On The Watch.But There Is Something Called A Snake Line. When The Climbes Get To A Certain Altitude, When They Get High Enough,Because The Air Is Os Thin, They Know That Snakes Cannot Live At That Level. Now They Don’t Have To Worry About These Poisonous Snakes At That Height.

In The Same Way, If You’ll Keep Ruling Over Your Emotions, Not Letting The Flesh Have Control, As You Continue Growing, Maturing, Coming Up Higher, You Will Get To The Place Where The Enemy Cannot Bother You Anymore.

It Doesn’t Mean That You Won’t Feel The Emotional, Ordinary Impulses, They’ll Still Be There, But They Won’t Affect You; Your Flesh Has Been Dethroned.  Those Feelings May Try To Get Back Up There From Time To Time, But You’ve Developed So Much Self-Discipline, You’ve Sowed To The Spirit So Long, The Enemy Cannot Go Where You’re Going. We May Not All Be There Just Yet, But Don’t Worry, You’re Getting Closer.  We’re Coming Up Higher; The Flesh Is Getting Weaker, The Spirit Is Getting Stronger.

Who’s The Boss? You’re The Boss.  Now Do Your Part; Keep Saying No To The Flesh. Like Paul, Keep Dying Daily. If You’ll Do This, As You Continue To Grow, God Is Going To Release The Inheritance, The Amazing Things He Has In Store. You’re Going To Step Into The Fullness Of Your Destiny, And Become Everything He’s Created You To Be.

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One comment on “Spirit vs. Flesh

  1. Anonymous
    July 4, 2016

    Suberb teaching…as well as incouraging…


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